Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Pink !


Pink !!!


I couldn't think of a better title. I guess it kind of suits the theme as well.Yes, its about women,its about girls and the blah blah that follows.Actually i want to dedicate this one to my mother, Aku, my sisters and my female friends (sadly just a single digit number) etc.As soon as I figured out what this world was about and how things work here, I have an immense respect for women.I mean it has been so unfair to them.Right from the Purdah system to till now.Yes, a lot has changed.The male dominated society has accepted the participation of women in all fields.But its still dominated by men.

It starts right from the beginning.A staggering number of baby girls are murdered while they are inside their mother.How unfair ? Everyone wants to have a boy who can support them in the future. Aaah...grow up people! Women are probably the better half of this human world. Without them even your existence is impossible.Don't you dare stop those little angels coming to our world.

A typical middle class family would do anything to fulfill the wishes of their son, they would do anything for his proper education.But for their girl child, they would readily compromise to situations.They would not care as much for her education as well as she has to leave them anyway.Their is a bias in everything.She gets neglected.She is deprived of the love she deserves.Girls go through so much trouble.They live with so many restrictions and regulations.They can't go out all by themselves.And sadly these all are the result of the disgusting and shameful behavior of men who have nothing better to do but harass.Damn eve-teasers !

Then as soon as they enter their twenties or complete their graduation, they are forced to hear that unwanted sound.Wedding Bells! Aah ....give them a break for the love of God ! But sadly many parents believe in something else.

Early to Wed ! And early to raise !
Makes a woman Healthy,Wealthy and Wise !

It's good to see the change though.Today is way different .They have proved themselves everywhere. Women power is prevailing. But sadly this change is only urban.Things are all the same in the rural areas. Nothing has changed for them.

Now talking personal,I wish I had a little sister.I missed someone by my side all the time.Friends are always there but it still felt incomplete.Nevertheless, almighty gave me wonderful cousin sisters.I love you all.You know, there are times when you have issues which you cannot discuss with guys.They can't bear this emotional crap.Oh...that's passe ! The word is emotional atyachaar ! Women are surprisingly good listeners too, but only when someone opens up to them seeking their help or advice.Women are emotionally very strong.Men only pretend.They have so much energy,enthusiasm and spontaneity.Their working style is so organized and planned.And yet they are so unpredictable.There is so much more about them.But the most important thing of all, they know how to care.Guys, of course we care too.They just do it in a better way.

Cheers ! Go Gals !

P.S This is a sincere post and is not an attempt to impress girls ! I swear by your name !

7 comments:

Unknown said...

There is a shlok in sanskrit "yatra nari pujayte ,tatra devta vasante" means in a society or home where women gets respect, only there god exists.
gud to know that u think d same.
nice post. keep it up!

soporofic said...

yeah u r rite ....... things are really change but few things are still same ...........but the sufferings are different and they are still sufferings from the excruciating pain which we all get to know when every morning we read newspaper.........
"Women are probably the better half of this human world" hey i really like this sentence because reading this sentence must give every women a imensepleassure with proud .
wonderful post keep it up.

the full blood prince said...

early to wed and early to raise! masto =)

sid said...

Very true. I fully agree on this one

Whats in a name.......... said...

this one's sure to increase the number to more than two or even three digits genie!!;)
its so nice to see people write such posts, rare, thus refreshing!! i am impressed!really!!!:)

Cain said...

impressed..what made u write this i have no clue(as i hv not had with several of ur last posts), but good you did..and helathy wealthy and wise!!..my, my!

Genie said...

@cain

what made me write? .....hmmm well everyone thinks abt things differently...and writing what i feel or what i felt makes me feel good.....thats y i write....and what i write is just the reflection of my thoughts !