Friday, June 13, 2008

F.R.I.E.N.D.S


I would want nothing more from life if i had the pleasure of hanging out at the CENTRAL-PERK with friends like Joey,Chandler,Ross, Monica,Rachael and Phoebe.Actually,its not about the place.Its about the people.Its about how they influence your life and the way you begin to interpret things differently.It may not be colossal but the smallest of things do matter in the long run.I have always admired people with a positive approach towards life.Nothing is more encouraging and energetic than a smiling face.Imagine you walking down a road filled with strangers.Your smile can be the only good thing a person might see in his whole day.That helps.Believe it or not..err..Ripleys believe it or not !

Lets face it.Life has no meaning if we don't have someone to share.Joys and sorrows.I know you would say that we have a family to share with.But there are few things that only a friend can understand.There are times when you taste success.You are overwhelmed by jubilation.You are happy.But there are times when you sacrifice that moment so that your friend(s) can feel the same way.You are doubtful whether it was the right thing to do.You see their smiling faces.They hug you.You have never been more happy.You want to cry.You try your best to hold back the tears.Boys don't cry.I loved that movie.But girls,thats not true.We have feelings too.Maybe not on the surface.



Each person is different from the other.But everyone is special.Thanks Aamir; for TZP.Sometimes its difficult to understand a person.Sometimes we cannot make out why a person is acting like a complete psycho.Why is he being so rude.So selfish.You are not authorized to judge someone.Anyone,to be precise.You are not God. You just need to step into his shoes.See the world from his eyes and you would understand.All of your friends may not be goody-goody.They may have some issues.You should not just run away from them.You should not abandon them.Be there.Care.After all thats what friends are for.

They say that a boy and a girl cannot be friends.That is so not true.They even say you can either love a girl or hate her, but making her a friend is not an option.Again,not true.I have no clue what girls think about this.But i feel that its the person's qualities that attracts you.The chemistry that develops.The affection you feel.Life is full of surprises.Either agony or ecstasy.Everybody goes through a dark period.A time when you feel death would be a bliss.You are alone in the black bottomless chasm.You see light.But its too far.You will never make it. Out of nowhere comes a helping hand.You grab it.You don't mind if its Black or White.You wouldn't care if its a boy or a girl.Good or Bad.Beautiful or ugly.When you are in trouble, you won't mind anything.But had the things been the other way around?Think about it.

Well, we never realize what our Friends mean to us unless we are far away from them doing some stupid internship.Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.Cheers to all my friends.Just want you all to know......

I'll be there for you ,when the rain starts to pour ;
I'll be there for you ,like I've been there before ;
I'll be there for you ,because you're there for me too !

8 comments:

ronsin said...

all along i was feeling why all this talk of friendship... that too quite serious kind of... good you gave the answer in the post itself... by the way if anurag goes through this he'll definitely disagree a few times... ;)

the full blood prince said...

very honestly written yaar.. liked the use of short sentences.
i still remember our first year days.. all the fun that we had.. the aes taes.. the robot making.. the mugging.. the crazy frog dance at the midnight.. the holi.. the first sf that we spent together.. and more of it! miss those days! =)
n you wrote it correct.. we remember all this when we are away on some stupid internship. i'd have burried here by now, had i not been talking to all my friends every single day. gtalk rocks :P
very genuine post.. no artificiality.
keep bloggong! cheers!! =)

Genie said...

@prince.....yeah that was a magical time....probably the best in kgp yet for me ..and yeah gtalk rocks big time :P

kandy said...

arre dost....jaldi se ek psychiatrist se check up karwa le be....m seriously worried about :D:D:D

Johny-walker said...

You know what tembe... muah
Seriously.. you dont realise it when they are there, you realise it when they are not there.
This place in Europe, is such an awesome place to live.. but without u guys.. it sucks! That old room with those cobwebs, and that shitty toilet and that mess feels so much better just because we were all together!

Genie said...

@kandy....u knw wht...i'll be fine when we are back at kgp...may be CGE is the certain medicine for me..and i cannot hav it ryt nw :(

Genie said...

@johny....that is exactly wht m feelin...n probably each of us

Anonymous said...

life is to be fortified by many friendships..to love & to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.
so lucky to have a special friend like you!!